Being Prepared….

I learned outdoorsmanship from my relatively short time in the Boy Scouts of America. My time was cut short when I left the country, but the memories of hiking, camping, and learning skills linger with me to this day. Strangely, other interests led me to be a city dweller, and I let these outdoor skills atrophy for many years.

I have fond memories of reading The Official Boy Scout Handbook, an illustrated, wide-ranging manual given to scouts. From camping to swimming, knot-tying to first-aid, from life-skills to good citizenship, this book has something on everything. My copy - doodled on, falling apart and fixed with masking tape, water-stained, and dog-eared beyond any other book I own- didn’t look like it would be a safe choice to re-read.

My new to me reprint beside my original, well-loved copy of the Boy Scout Handbook.

I found a replacement reading copy on eBay recently for a very affordable price. And, I’ve started reading through the book yet again. I have resources that cover many of the topics in this Handbook, but the ease of reading, as it was designed for teenage boys, yet the breadth of each subject is super refreshing. It’s hardly Nessmuk, but it’s a refreshing read, even if dated.

I hadn't thought about my time in scouting until I rediscovered my old Handbook tucked into a corner of a bookshelf. Opening it and finding records of some of my hikes took me back many years. I regret not pursuing Scouting in the other countries I lived in after leaving the States. Reading through the “program” again reminded me what a well-rounded person a scout would be if they had grown up following the Boy Scout tenets. The oath, for example:

On my honour, I will do my best

To do my duty to God and to my country

and to obey the Scout Law;

To help other people at all times;

To keep myself physically strong,

mentally awake, and morally straight.

My next thought is, why isn’t there a group like this for grown-ups? Getting outdoors and keeping physically strong, pursuing higher thoughts, and living with good morals through a close network of like-minded people. I’d sign up in a hurry.

Christmas is for the dogs…around here, anyway.

I’ve been working from home with my dog for too long, apparently. We’ve become bonded in a way that may not be normal, as we have developed close communication. She is demanding, and I give in to her needs. I really noticed it this Christmas season when Coco started asking for solo evening drives to see the local Christmas lights.

Coco always loves driving in town - as it means we go for a walk and she gets to see people - my damned extroverted puppy. I installed a semi-permanent raised seat in the back of my Jeep for her - she can sit safely and look out to see the world going by, which she loves.

Our first trip involved a shopping trip into town, choosing the dog-friendly stores to spend my money in. On the way home, I asked the dog if she wanted to go and see the lights in town. She got really excited and enjoyed the drive. However, I’m not sure if Coco prefers the lights or the many inflatable Christmas lawn decorations.

Coco watching the Christmas lights

A few days later, I had to pick up a few things in town, and I told Coco we would go for a ride. My lovely wife picked up what I needed as she drove through town on the way home, so I didn’t have to go there. A couple of hours later, Coco was sulking and staring at the front door. I asked her if she still wanted to go for a car ride, and she jumped up on me immediately.

The Christmas train

I bundled her in her seat, and we drove out to see the Christmas-lit Kettle Valley Railway train. It was beautiful, and Coco absolutely loved watching it. I can tell, as we came home, that she was delighted. Demanding dog.

Praire Valley #15: Lighting Up The Vines

Our town has a wonderful tradition of Christmas Light Ups. All of the town holiday lights come on at the same time on the last weekend in November/first weekend in December, depending on the calendar. It transforms our quaint Main Street into something out of a romantic Christmas Movie. This year was slightly marred by the fact that the snow-line was above the downtown area - but as our home is higher than the town centre, the snow at home made our own light up much more festive.

Our local vineyards also reopen for a couple of evenings in early December for a tradition called Light Up The Vines - which is hugely popular, and very, very busy.

We stopped by three of our local wineries on Saturday night, for a combination of wine tasting and dinner. At the first, Lightning Rock, I tried out my new camera. The other stops were just full of people having fun and, I suspect, not wanting to be on a camera. We also drove past some of the crazy community lights - everyone gets into the season. Enjoy the short video.

Lighting Up The Vines

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Prairie Valley #14: Out In Nature

I've been busy around my house this summer, and I didn't realize until today how much I've missed nature. Ironic, as I live in a fairly rural space, with orchards and vineyards just the other side of my neighbours house. But I had a longling for solitude and quietness - the type that only remote nature can provide.

Today was September 30 - the National Day for Truth and Reconciliation. And what better way to honour the elders of the land than to visit nature. I took a jaunt to a local provincial park - a place always favoured by boom-box toting, pot-smoking tent campers during the summer. Come autumn, and the vibe is different, and much more to my taste. In fact, we were the only people at the lake today. Well, us and the eagles. Which is exactly my type of solitude.

The lake, at the end of our dry summer season was surprisingly low. But, even the low tide didn't dull the views from the south end of the lake.

I needed some quiet time in nature, and this park - only 30 minutes outside of Summerland, provided that. The beginning of the changing fall colours of the trees really brought this home.

Feeling stuck? Find your own version of this lake. It maybe closer than you think.

Prairie Valley #13: We Be Jammin'

It was supposed to be beer and pizza. Hang out in my bar. Talk some BS and generally destress. It’s just a few guys getting together for a few hours on a weeknight to chill and hang out. With family and work commitments, it’s something that gets put off far too often.

My friends are musicians, and fortunately, I have a relatively decent musical setup at home. As the night went on, we listened to different types of music, discussed the music of our youth (yes, this is something that aging men do!), and finally had to try out the various instruments I had lying around.

We played some great tunes, but it wasn't until Mrs. T subbed for me on my synthesizers that I thought to record a snippet of what we were playing.

Have a listen:

It came out brilliantly. What a fantastic way to spend a Tuesday evening!

How was your evening? If it wasn’t quite as fulfilling, I recommend setting up an evening with the most talented people you know. You may be amazed at what happens. I certainly was!

An Ode To Autumn

Coco looking very autumnal

Strange day. 31C outside as I write this, yet it feels very autumnal. The sunrise is getting later, the sunset is getting earlier, and the weather is very changeable as next week is showing highs of only 2/3rds the temperature. Gourds are in the gardens, including a wonderful feast of patty pan squash that I just picked.

Last Saturday was the local Summerland Fall Fair. Apparently, this was the 111th annual event. I think the organizing committee missed the perfect marketing tie-in to Bilbo Baggins' eleventy-first birthday party in The Lord of the Rings, but perhaps they are too busy farming to read such a meaty tome. Our community was founded on orchards and produce, before wine became the big thing that it now is. It was a wonderful event - booths showing off the best of the district, games and activities for the kids, and the bigger kids as well for that matter. And fantastic live music.

A view from the stage

Well, I say it was fantastic as I played djembe in one of the sessions, and my lovely wife also played ukulele in another. Coco and I went to watch her play, which is even more fun than playing myself! Especially as the local cake stall was there and I was happily munching on a far-too-fattening apple fritter. Yummy.

Coco watching the Ukulele group play

But the fall fair is always the turning point. Fall is coming, and the extensive list of time-sensitive projects is piling up with a fast deadline. It can snow as early as the beginning of November here, and once it snows, I may not see my lawn for 5-6 months. How's that for motivation to get things done?

Despite the stress of the tasks to do, I do enjoy autumn. I'm looking forward to cool evenings by a warm fire. And, in thinking of the change in season, I dug out my collection of Keat's to reread his ode "To Autumn". Fantastic, isn't it:

To Autumm:

Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness,
lose bosom-friend of the maturing sun;
Conspiring with him how to load and bless
With fruit the vines that round the thatch-eves run;
To bend with apples the moss’d cottage-trees,
And fill all fruit with ripeness to the core;
To swell the gourd, and plump the hazel shells
With a sweet kernel; to set budding more,
And still more, later flowers for the bees,
Until they think warm days will never cease,
For summer has o’er-brimm’d their clammy cells.

Who hath not seen thee oft amid thy store?
Sometimes whoever seeks abroad may find
Thee sitting careless on a granary floor,
Thy hair soft-lifted by the winnowing wind;
Or on a half-reap’d furrow sound asleep,
Drowsed with the fume of poppies, while thy hook
Spares the next swath and all its twined flowers:
And sometimes like a gleaner thou dost keep
Steady thy laden head across a brook;
Or by a cider-press, with patient look,
Thou watchest the last oozings, hours by hours.

Where are the songs of Spring? Ay, where are they?
Think not of them, thou hast thy music too,—
While barred clouds bloom the soft-dying day,
And touch the stubble-plains with rosy hue;
Then in a wailful choir the small gnats mourn
Among the river sallows, borne aloft
Or sinking as the light wind lives or dies;
And full-grown lambs loud bleat from hilly bourn;
Hedge-crickets sing; and now with treble soft
The redbreast whistles from a garden-croft,
And gathering swallows twitter in the skies.

To Autumn by John Keats - Poems | Academy of American Poets

Father’s Day - It’s Complicated!

I try to have low expectations of Father’s Day. My relationship with my father was complicated, and I don’t have biological children of my own. My step-daughter’s relationship with Father’s Day was heavily impacted by the guilt of split loyalties demanded by her biological father.

It’s easy to ignore a Hallmark Holiday based on traditional family values, and that’s usually what I try to do. Unless you open social media, watch TV, or connect to the outside world, adverts and promotions for the “happy day” abound. Which can be rough if you have a challenging history, and I’d say many of us do.

My lovely wife tries to compensate for my lack of interest in the day with some special activity, meal, or nice gift, and I certainly appreciate her effort. However, this year, my wife has her own Dad to care for, and he’s got some health challenges, so even those efforts may be muted.

Not all is negative, though. Last night, on the eve of Father’s Day, I was reading the book “First Wilderness” by Sam Keith, and a passage about words that his father spoke to him hit me hard. Sam Keith relates his story of moving to the Alaskan wilderness and telling his father. His father’s reaction, quoting a few lines of Robert Service’s poem, The Cremation of Sam McGee hit me right in the feels.

““There are strange things done in the midnight sun by the men who moil for gold,” he recited. “The Arctic trails have their secret tales that would make your blood run cold.””

— First Wilderness: My Quest in the Territory of Alaska by Sam Keith

Sage advice, indeed, for a trek into the unknown. And this quote got me thinking about what, if any, sage advice my own father had passed down to me. What teachings could I learn from and pass down to my step-daughter? Unfortunately, I couldn’t come up with much advice (at least that was fit for publishing), but I did recollect some pleasant memories with my father, which was a nice side-effect of this thought exercise.

I remembered my dad teaching me how to work on cars as a small boy, which was necessary when I was young, as finances were not strong. Though it took me another decade to determine that a half-inch wrench had a real descriptive name, and wasn’t a four-letter curse word! My dad taught me how to drive a motorbike when I was 10, drive a car when I was 13, and a forklift when I was 17. I have a fun memory of watching the Blue Jays’ World Series game in the early nineties at a pub in Vancouver. I especially remember my Dad picking a fight with a fan of the opposite team sitting next to us and having to defuse that situation! What fun. Unfortunately, my contact with my own dad fell apart after that, and we weren’t close again. He passed away some 8 or 9 years ago and we hadn’t spoke in years. Luckily, I’m at peace with that. In fact, it was probably better that way.

Thinking about Father’s Day when your memories aren’t great is rough. Or, when you don’t even think about your father at all. But, trying to come up with some positive memories, even if fleeting, can be a positive experience. Maybe there is a pearl of wisdom somewhere that you can pass along. I hope that Father’s Day isn’t a negative experience for you, wherever you are.

Prairie Valley #13: A Short Walk In The Woods

Somedays, it's hard to believe the beauty in my local area. I live in a valley surrounded by mountains and trails. For a fun hike on a Sunday morning, I ventured out onto a trail on my local mountain, and took my new drone for company.

The scenery was stunning, so here is the video I shot. Winter hikes: Amazing!

Prairie Valley #12: Hey, Bear!

I grew up during the theatrical release of The Jungle Book (a long time ago!), and one of my first ideas of bears was Baloo scratching his back and singing "The Bear Necessities." Lovely fellow! This association with friendly, cuddly bears likely contributes to my lack of fear about these sharp-clawed animals in the wild—and having been a city dweller for so many years, bears weren't something I've ever given much thought to.

I now live in a more rural area, with a couple of bears regularly patrolling my neighbourhood - evidenced by the large, triangular deposits left behind or the occasional raid of a neighbour's garbage can if left outside. Luckily, these are black bears and not their aggressive relatives, though one is still pretty big. They walk through my street mostly at night to get from the hills where they live to the orchards on the other side of my house.

Mrs. T is much more prudent about bear safety and insists on carrying bear spray when we venture into the trails. She carries a bear bell when hiking or will set up her phone to play music and make noise to avoid creeping up on a bear. I go along with such measures largely for marital harmony. However, if I'm hiking deep in the back woods, I'm likely to strap on a can of bear spray. I've had bears walk through my camps, but they haven't woken me up, and I tend to be bear-aware with food to avoid potential problems.

Last weekend, I had my first close-up bear encounter. We were camping on a property some miles to the West of us in a beautiful wooded valley. I was taking Coco, our Lhasa Apso Princess Puppy, out for a walk when I noted a big black bear in the meadow a couple of hundred feet from us. Mr. Bear was doing beary things and foraging around the meadow, paying us no mind. Coco was likewise entertained by the sniffs of white-tail deer that had passed through the campground the night before. Indeed, it was The Peaceable Kingdom, with nobody paying any mind to anyone else.

So, I did what any self-respecting iPhone-carrying moron would do and broke out the camera to get a couple of pictures of the bear. I'm not suggesting I walked closer to get a selfie or anything that daft, but seeing a bear in the wild doing bear things was interesting. Very cool.

That was until Mr. Bear noticed us and started walking towards us. I didn't think much of it at first, as I was trying to keep an eye on the dog doing that circular walk that we all know means relief is coming soon. I looked up and saw that the bear had suddenly gotten much closer. Even at a walk, a bear moves quickly, and when it's looking straight at you and walking in your direction, it moves like the wind.

At about 100 feet away, I was tempted to pick up Coco, throw my phone at the bear, and shriek like a little girl while running away as quickly as my plump little legs would carry me, but this meant I'd be an appetizer for Mr. Bear. I could say I fought him off with my pocket knife and wrestled him into submission, but the truth is a lot less scary.

I said louder than usual, but not a shout - "Hey, bear!" And Mr. Bear turned tail and ran off through the back of the meadow. I felt bad for scaring the big loaf. And the experience has not taught me to be afraid of bears any more than before. Cute buggers when you see them up close. At least the black ones.